Iโve been in China for 12 days and I have so much to tell you. Keep listening to find out about my new life halfway across the world.

Hello, my Lovely Learners and welcome to Easy Stories in English, the podcast that will take your English from Okay to Good and from Good to Great! I am Ariel Goodbody, your host for this show. Todayโs episode is a conversation about how things are going for me in China. As always, the transcript and PDF are available at EasyStoriesInEnglish.com and you can find the link in the description.
So Iโve been on a little journey! It feels like itโs been a very long time since I talked to you, although it really hasnโt, but it is certainly a long way away from where I was the last time I talked to you. In fact, I am 9,352 kilometers away from my last location of recording, to be precise, but whoโs counting?

So obviously I have so much to tell you. Iโve just moved to Ningbo, China in Zhejiang Province. Iโve been here for 12 days, Iโve found somewhere to live, Iโve had lots of new experiences and Iโve more or less started my new job. So letโs get into it.
So to be honest, the last few weeks living in London, leading up to my move, I was just so stressed. I had been so busy, and all I kept telling myself was, I just need to make it until I can get on that plane. Once Iโm on the aeroplane, God will handle the rest. Once Iโm in the air, itโs out of my hands.
And indeed, it was very strange. This was the first time I flew long-haul in about 13 years, and it really did feel like going through a portal to another world. It was a very long flight, obviously: 11 hours and 45 minutes. Fortunately, I was sat next to a very friendly British couple who actually had a son who has lived in China for over seven years, and they were going to visit their son, so it felt like a kind of nice parallel there. Theyโre going to visit their son who lives in China and works there, and Iโm going to go live and work in China.
So I flew from London Heathrow to Shanghai Pudong, which is an airport in the east of Shanghai. And then I got the train from Shanghai Hongqiao, which is a train station in the west of Shanghai, down to Ningbo. And when the plane landed in Shanghai, it was quite an amazing moment.
Now, before coming to China, I watched a lot of videos, a lot of YouTube clips about living in China, about Chinese culture. So in some ways I knew what to expect, and one of the things that I knew would be a big shock is the scale of everything. Everything is so much bigger here. Itโs on a completely different level. It makes the UK feel very small.
And indeed, as we flew over Shanghai and just saw these endless rows of buildings and houses, these rivers that moved in such long straight lines, and they shone in the sun. They looked like motorways. They looked like roads. And all of the houses neatly lined up together reminded me of Legoland. It was a bit like standing over Legoland, but then it also reminded me of a motherboard, you know, a computer motherboard, which has all the electronic parts sticking out? A lot of the apartment buildings looked like that. And then you have these huge monoculture forests. So all of these forests with just one type of tree, which I guess are for harvesting and using, and that reminded me of some childrenโs play toys.
So really flying over Shanghai and seeing all of this incredible, massive uniform urban landscape, it really did feel like I was looking down on a little toy world or something.

Now after I landed in Shanghai, I got the Maglev train โ thatโs short for magnetic levitation โ from the airport to the city centre, and I didnโt really need to do this. I could have got the subway directly from Pudong airport to Hongqiao railway station, but the Maglev train is the fastest train in the world. It can get up to 400 kilometers per hour, I believe. Although they cap the speed at 300, so it only goes up to 300 kilometers per hour, but itโs still an incredibly fast train journey, and it gets you from Pudong Airport to the city centre in about 10 minutes.
Iโm not a massive train nerd, but I do like a good train and it was quite exciting, although at one point another train went past us and it was so fast that it made me jump because it was like BOOM! Like, felt like you were about to get hit by the train or something.
Now, by this point I was quite tired. I had been on a 12-hour plane journey without really sleeping. I watched The Devil Wears Prada on the aeroplane, by the way. They didnโt have a great selection of Chinese films, so I decided to watch The Devil Wears Prada because Iโve never seen it before. And I have to say Meryl Streep is very good in that film.
So, anyway, my plan was to wander around Longyang Road, which is where the Maglev gets into and find somewhere to have breakfast. That plan didnโt really work. I wandered around this shopping mall, which wasnโt really open yet, โcause it was like half past eight in the morning, and it was all a bunch of non-breakfast restaurants. I was carrying two suitcases with me, both around 22 kilograms.
And at one point I got on an escalator and one of my suitcases I put in front of me and it fell down and landed on a policeman. It didnโt just land on the policeman, it slammed into the policeman, and because of the gravity and the motion of the escalator, it just kind of pushed him down and I was so embarrassed. I was like, oh my God, Iโm so sorry. Iโm so sorry. Obviously I said โduibuqiโ which is the Chinese. He acted like nothing had happened, thankfully, because I was really worried I was about to get deported on my first day in China, in my first few hours in China. But no, I did not get deported, I did not get sent back to the UK. So that was okay.
So in the end, after almost injuring an officer of the law, I decided maybe I should just go directly to the train station to avoid any further incidents. So I got on the metro to Hongqiao train station, and I had another moment of, oh my God, this is all so big! Because Hongqiao train station is practically an airport. It has over 30 gates, I think? You have to go through these massive security lines to get in, and I was really quite tired and overwhelmed at this point, but I got safely on the high-speed rail from Shanghai to Ningbo and I even made friends with some locals.
At one point, two young girls came and sat next to me when they got on the train. They were dressed in kind of alt fashion, alternative fashion, like a bit goth, a bit Lolita, and they were sitting on the train trying to record a TikTok video. They were like learning this TikTok dance. And I was watching them kind of bemused. I thought it was quite funny. I also thought this TikTok dance was very easy.
So at one point when they finally had learned the dance and were recording it, I said, oh, can I do it with you? In Chinese. And so we recorded the dance together and they were like, oh, can I send it to my friends on WeChat? And I was like, yeah, sure, thatโs fine. Um, but then they kind of just stopped talking to me after that. Uh, I donโt know. They seemed a bit shy and socially awkward, but I was like, Iโm here to learn Chinese, well, to improve my Chinese. Iโm here to try and assimilate to the culture as much as possible. Iโm here to have an adventure. Iโm here to have a good time. I couldnโt just sit there and say nothing. I had to record this TikTok dance with them.
So I donโt know if they ever posted it on Douyin, which is the Chinese version of TikTok, but maybe itโs gone viral already. Who knows? It wouldnโt surprise me if I was already a celebrity in China.
Anyway, after arriving at the train station, I was picked up and taken to the hotel and thus began several days of bureaucracy.
If you donโt know what bureaucracy is. B-U-R-E-A-U-C-R-A-C-Y. Bureaucracy is basically dealing with government systems, systems of organizing in a system. That, thatโs kind of obvious… Systems of organizing in a system? You know, ticking boxes, filling out forms, processing documents; all of that is bureaucracy. And believe me, thereโs quite a lot of bureaucracy to handle, to do, when you move to China.

So first we had to do a health check, and I have never had this many tests done. They did a blood test, a urine sample, an x-ray, an ECG, and an ultrasound. And I had never had an ultrasound in my life before. I asked lots of people like, why do they do an ultrasound? Is it to check if weโre pregnant? Like, I donโt think Iโm pregnant, but you never know.
Um, so that was very strange. And in some ways it was good because itโs like, okay, maybe if I do have some illness or disease, Iโll find out this way and that would be useful. But itโs also very strange because… So in the UK we talk about bedside manner, right? Which is how friendly doctors and nurses are, how kind of warm they are to patients. And itโs considered to be very important in the UK to have good bedside manner because it helps patients recover. It helps them feel relaxed.
Here, at least for the health check, there wasnโt really any bedside manner. It was just kind of lie down, do this, put your arms up, take your shirt off. Poke, poke, poke, prod, prod, prod, scan, scan, scan. So that was um, interesting. It was certainly a different experience and I havenโt heard anything back about the health check, so I can assume that Iโm all good and healthy and unfortunately not pregnant. I guess Iโll have to keep trying.
After that, we went and got our SIM cards. So a phone card, a phone number, a Chinese phone number. Itโs really important to have a Chinese SIM card and phone number because you use it to access many services in China. Something different about it is that you can choose your phone number here. They give you a lot of options. I think I just chose a random one or one of the first ones, โcause I was like, I donโt know! Itโs a phone number! Iโve never had to choose one of these before, but Iโve had to use it so many times to log onto services that Iโve memorised it at this point. So thatโs the important thing.
And then finally we went to the bank to get our bank account set up, and here was when I experienced one of the first kind of annoying hurdles, one of the first serious challenges in getting set up in China.
So, as you know, there is the Great Firewall of China. A lot of Western websites and internet services are blocked in China. I have a Google phone, which means that it uses the Google Play Store to download apps. The Bank of China app has two versions. It has an international version and then a Chinese version. But I couldnโt download the Chinese version from Google Play, so I had to download a Chinese app store and then download the Bank of China Chinese app through that. And I had to figure this all out by myself โcause I was trying to log into the international version and it just was not working. And there have been a lot of issues like that so far. Nothing insurmountable, nothing impossible, but it does take a lot of patience, for sure.
And then after that, of course, I had to find somewhere to live. So I found an agent and I went to many apartment viewings over several days. There were lots of ups and downs. I found a place I liked, but then someone else took it. I found a place I liked, but then it was too expensive. I made a mistake transferring money internationally because, again, itโs quite complicated transferring money from a Western bank account to a Chinese one, which meant I had to wait for a payment to be rejected to get my money back, which took 48 hours, and then I had to go to an ATM, take out the money from my British bank account in cash and then deposit it into my Chinese bank account in cash. And thereโs a limit on how much you can withdraw per day.
So as you can imagine, it was quite complicated. Especially because most Chinese landlords want four monthsโ rent upfront. You pay rent in chunks of three months, and then you also pay your deposit, which is one monthโs rent. And then we had to pay the fee to the housing agents, to the real estate agents, which was equivalent to one monthโs rent. So we essentially had to pay five monthsโ rent upfront. So, uh, yeah, complicated, stressful, but I found somewhere to live. In the end. Finally. Which is where Iโm recording this episode from! Sorry if itโs a bit echoey. I donโt have a lot of furniture yet.
But look, even with all of the difficulties finding this place compared to anything I could get in London, it is amazing. Iโm paying almost half what I was paying in London to share a small flat with someone else. I have the whole flat to myself. Itโs a three bedroom, which means I can have my bedroom, a guest bedroom, and an office. It has an enclosed balcony, which is great for doing laundry. It has lots of modern furnishings. I think all of the bathroom and kitchen are new. I think Iโm the first person to live here. It has air conditioning throughout. Itโs in a very pretty housing complex, very safe, lots of greenery in the complex.
The only downside of where I live is itโs a bit further out from the city centre than I probably wanted. I was quite stressed about just finding somewhere that I didnโt think so much about the area. One advantage is I do have very nice views. I can see the mountains in the distance, and itโs about a 25 minute walk from my job, the school I work at, which is a perfect distance โcause it gets me a bit of exercise, but itโs not too far. But yeah, itโs kind of a quiet area. Thereโs a lot of construction going on around here. Thereโs not too many shops around here, but given the pace of change in China, it might look completely different in a yearโs time. Who knows?
So itโs not perfect, but I have an office, I have space to do yoga. Itโs gonna be everything I need. And actually by being further out, I save a bit of money and I can put that money towards recording equipment, holidays, food and taxis into the city centre.
Because thatโs the thing: the transport here is crazy cheap. In fact, kind of everything is cheap here. Like, the cost of getting food delivered, the cost of food itself, taxis, public transport, itโs all so affordable. And I know that obviously Iโm earning a higher salary than many of the locals. A lot of people are, you know, working very hard to make a living here, but I would say there seems to be, at least within the city of Ningbo, there seems to be less of a wealth divide than in London. Iโve not seen any homeless people here, whereas in London itโs unfortunately a very common occurrence.
But yeah, I can get a taxi from my workplace home. If I get it at a non-peak time it can be as cheap as 0.4 kuai. Kuai is just another word for yuan, the Chinese currency, which is equivalent to about four pence in British money, which is like… nothing. Like, you couldnโt get anything for that amount of money in London. And then at peak times, a taxi is maybe like seven kuai, which is about 70p, which again is like the price of a chocolate bar. In fact, chocolate bars are more expensive than that now in London. So yeah, itโs very, very cheap to get around. So even if I am further out, I can so easily get in and out. I have multiple options. I have the metro, buses, I could get a bike, or I can get a taxi. Thatโs not a big issue.

Now letโs talk about food, because China is very well known for its food. It has a huge diverse cuisine, and food was one of the things I was most excited about moving to China. Now, when I first arrived, they put us up in a hotel for 10 days while we found somewhere to live, and the hotel breakfast was gorgeous. It was a balance of Chinese breakfast and Western breakfast, although it definitely leaned heavily in favor of Chinese breakfast. It was much more Chinese-style breakfast.
So I was able to have congee. Congee is like rice porridge with pickled vegetables; dumplings, fried vegetables, uh, omelette pancake kind of things. They did have, um, sausages and bacon, but the sausages and bacon here are a bit weird. Uh, they had lovely, like, sweet buns with adzuki bean paste inside. They had hot fresh noodles, which I didnโt really get. They had nice sweet yoghurt. Unfortunately, itโs quite hard to get non-sweet yoghurt here. The dairy products is one area where itโs still kind of lacking for me. And yeah, suffice it to say, I was well fed at breakfast.
My first few days I tried to be kind of adventurous with food. There was a restaurant next to the hotel that had this really cute frog mascot and I was like, oh, that looks fun. So I looked at the signs outside and I saw something that looked like fried eggs and tomatoes, which I know is a Chinese dish. So I was like, oh, great, Iโll go get that. And I went inside, I ordered, and when it arrived I realised this is definitely not fried eggs and tomatoes. In fact, it was spicy bullfrog soup.

Now, if you donโt know, bullfrogs are a type of frog, those amphibians that go [ribbit ribbit] and their necks grow. We donโt eat frogs in the UK. They do eat frogsโ legs in France, and spicy bullfrog soup is a popular dish in Sichuan in the west of China. So it kind of became obvious to me afterwards, oh, the reason the restaurant had a cute frog mascot was because they sell frogs.
But I have to say it was very yummy. It was quite spicy and it didnโt necessarily agree with my stomach. Because of the jet lag and the spiciness, I did wake up at two in the morning with a lot of stomach pain, but I have to say it was worth it for a new culinary experience, and bullfrog is really tasty. It kind of tastes like chicken. I know people say that about a lot of things, but uh, yeah, it was good. Turns out it has a lot more bones than I expected. A lot bonier than I thought, but I can definitely recommend spicy bullfrog soup.
Another cuisine Iโve tried is the local Ningbo cuisine. Because Ningbo is a coastal city, itโs a port city, it is of course big on seafood. So some of my new Chinese friends, Iโve made a few friends, some of my new Chinese friends took me out to some local Ningbo restaurants and we had such delicious dishes as hairy crab, fish and tofu, uh, prawns, shrimps. A lot of seafood and all really delicious. Now, unlike Sichuan food, which is very spicy, Ningbo food is very fresh, and it tends to be more kind of like sour, pickled cold flavours. So fortunately thatโs a kind of cuisine which is a bit lighter on my stomach.

I also tried some red bayberry alcohol. Red bayberry is a kind of fruit that I donโt think we have in the UK? Iโve certainly never heard of it in Europe, but Iโve tried dried red bayberry and Iโve tried bayberry liqueur, and it is quite yummy.
Iโve also tried some of the Western food they have here. I mentioned that sausages and bacon are a bit hit-or-miss. I also tried pizza, which is not so great. Most of the bread here is a bit sweet and I donโt know, thereโs just something about the pizza Iโve had here. Itโs a bit too fluffy. The toppings arenโt quite right. Itโs not tomatoey enough. Also, sandwiches often look really yummy here, but then you taste them and they just donโt have enough flavour. So thereโs definitely some adjustments Iโm going to have to make.
Iโm still kind of struggling to find my breakfast food. Back in the UK I ate the same breakfast pretty much every day. I would have a bowl of muesli with chia seeds, peanut butter yoghurt and banana, and itโs quite expensive here to get muesli and yoghurt. So I havenโt tried having that yet. Iโve kind of been trying other things.

Actually, I ordered breakfast delivery today, which is something I would absolutely never do in the UK, but here itโs very affordable and I think itโs more common. And I got some breakfast foods delivered. I had bone broth congee, so rice porridge with um, I guess pork bones in it, and it was so yummy. The flavour of the bone broth really paired well with the porridge. I also had some dumplings and soup that were really nice, this kind of seaweed soup thing that was okay, but I didnโt love, and then I also got some red adzuki bean soup, which was delicious. I mean, itโs kind of like a dessert, but, uh, this was all way too much for one person. Like one of these dishes wouldโve been enough for me, and I had four. So I put them to the side, and I guess Iโll have them after recording this podcast for my lunch. Yum, yum, yum.

Another thing that I knew was gonna be difficult here and has indeed been difficult is the weather. Ningbo is a subtropical, humid climate. So at this time of year, itโs 35 to 40 degrees and usually around 80 to 90% humidity. So only stupid people go out in the middle of the day here. So as you can guess, Iโve been going out a lot in the middle of the day here.
Thereโs actually a phrase that comes from an old song, โmad dogs and Englishmenโ, as in only mad dogs and Englishmen go out in the midday sun. And indeed, Iโve been surprising a lot of people by walking to work in the morning when most people get a taxi or ride a moped or whatever. But Iโm British. I like the sun. I know itโs hot. I know Iโm gonna sweat. I donโt care. And actually, Iโm slowly sweating less. Each day I walk into work, it takes longer for me to hit the point when the sweat is dripping into my eyes. When I first started, I was like halfway to school and there was sweat in my eyes. Now I can get to the school ground before I have sweat in my eyes, so thatโs a win.
Iโve also heard that in the winter here it gets really cold because itโs a kind of like humid cold that cuts into your bones. I really hope thatโs not the case because London winters are bad enough, but I guess Iโll just have to adapt to that.
One thing I do love about the climate here is all of the little insects. As you walk around, you often hear crickets and cicadas. The cicadas are so loud that I genuinely thought it was some kind of electronic noise, like a warning sound or something, but it really is just a cicada. Also, they make a very different noise from the cicadas in Japan, so that kind of caught me off guard.

Generally, although Ningbo is a very built-up modern city: itโs got 9 million people, itโs got lots of big five lane roads, itโs got a big metro system, itโs got many, many skyscrapers; it has a lot of greenery. The urban planning in Ningbo is very good. Pretty much every road has trees and bushes planted along it. One time I was walking home at night and I saw a truck passing by and there was an old man standing on the back hosing all of the plants down with water. So I guess thatโs how they keep it all growing.
But yeah, it feels pretty green, I would say the roads still dominate a bit too much for my liking. A lot of the parks here are quite new, so the trees havenโt grown in properly yet, but itโs generally an okay balance. I do miss the parks in London because London has some gorgeous old, old trees that have grown and are really big. Here, a lot of the parks and stuff feel a bit too manicured, a bit too new, but I actually still have not been to the old part of the city. Iโm hoping to go today actually. So Iโm sure that will be quite a different experience and thereโll be a bit more history and maybe more like natural greenery there.
I would say the one thing that I didnโt hear so much about before I came here that has been quite interesting is the security here. People talk a lot about, China is a very safe country, and itโs mainly because the security here is just insane. Now, Iโd heard that there is CCTV pretty much everywhere. CCTV is short for closed-circuit television, so basically security cameras, and indeed, there are security cameras everywhere, but also at every metro station if you want to get onto the platform to get on the train, you have to go through a scanner. So you have to put your bags through a scanner and then have a guard check your body. So itโs kind of like going through airport security, so you canโt bring any sharp objects onto the train, for example. And that was quite a shock for me coming from London where there is no such security whatsoever.
Also, most people live in these big apartment complexes, and every time I go to visit a friend, I have to kind of negotiate with the security guards. Sometimes you have to give them your like name and phone number. Itโs a bit complicated. Pretty much none of the apartments have physical keys. They use a number code, so you put a password in to unlock your front door, and for my building, in order to get into the complex and get up the lift, they have a facial recognition system. So a camera looks at you, recognises your face, and then takes you up to the right floor for your flat.
Now, this is where things got a bit complicated because when I went in to record the video for the facial recognition, the camera simply would not recognise my face. I donโt know if itโs because I look foreign or I have a moustache or Iโm too pale, but it took a long time to set it up.
But then they told me I had to come back in another day because the security for the basement parking levels is different, and I did actually get locked in the basement once because the security camera did not recognise me. So I went back to record, and this time it literally just would not recognise me at all.
One of them said in Chinese, oh, itโs because you are so pale! Weโre also jealous of you. Because being pale, being very white, is considered beautiful here. And I was like, oh, I donโt know, I donโt think Iโm that pale. But yeah, so in the end they said, if I need to use the basement lifts, I should just call security and theyโll know itโs me and theyโll let me through. So they said they were really embarrassed, but to be honest, I was much more embarrassed.
And that experience kind of sums up the general atmosphere I have so far in China. On a personal level, I feel very welcomed. Everyone here is very friendly. Ningbo is a fairly cosmopolitan city, so you donโt get a lot of stares. People arenโt randomly coming up and talking to you, but if you speak Chinese, people are friendly. A lot of people have complimented my Chinese. When I tell them itโs my first time in China, theyโre quite surprised, so it feels good.
But in terms of the bureaucratic and technological systems, you feel quite excluded. Another example is last week I went to KFC. I wanted to buy food, but you canโt just order food at the counter, you have to use the app. So I tried using the KFC app, it didnโt work. So I tried using Meituan, which is the app that you use to order takeaway and delivery. I spent half an hour trying to figure out how to order from KFC, and when I finally put the order through, it said, your account has been flagged for suspicious activity and you canโt make this payment. So it wouldnโt let me pay because apparently I was acting suspiciously. So I was really angry and I just went to McDonaldโs instead, where I could use one of their screens to order and didnโt have to do it on my phone.
But yeah, those kind of experiences are very frustrating because it feels like the system is set up to exclude you and that they didnโt even consider that there might be foreigners here. And the thing is, Ningbo has multiple bilingual and international schools. So there are a lot of foreigners who live and work here. You know, Iโm not the only one. Having said that, I donโt know what itโs like to immigrate to the UK. I know there are many bureaucratic and cultural barriers as well, so Iโm sure itโs very hard the other way round.
So what about my job? Iโve technically started, although the first week of work was just induction, training and team building exercises. So far, everyone is super nice. Itโs a really nice school. Itโs very modern. It has great facilities. By Chinese standards itโs pretty small, it has about 2000 students, but by my standards, itโs by far the biggest place Iโve worked, and I do slightly feel like a fish out of water.
When you feel like a fish out of water, you feel a bit uncomfortable in a certain environment like everyone else fits in, but you donโt. Youโre like a fish that has been taken out of the water.
I feel a bit like a fish out of water because everyone else has worked in other schools before. Many people have worked elsewhere in China before, but for me, itโs all completely new. Iโve worked in language schools, mostly teaching adults. So this is all quite a big change.
However, the team building was actually super fun. We played some silly games. We did a scavenger hunt through the city. So a scavenger hunt is where you have challenges. You have to find certain things in different places. So we had to go and take pictures of different things in the city, but we just got clues about where to go. And that was actually really fun, despite the oppressive heat. It was, it was really cool going around Ningbo and taking all these pictures. I feel like scavenger hunts are one of those things that the more you take them seriously, the more effort you put in, the more fun they are.
Theyโve also given us loads of teaching supplies, like folders, notebooks, pens, scissors, rulers, erasers, and just the amount of whiteboard pens alone was enough to send me into ecstasy because, maybe this wonโt resonate with the non-teachers, maybe this wonโt make sense if youโre not a teacher, but Iโve worked at so many schools where you had to fight for supplies or you had to bring in your own supplies and keep them hidden away. So to get all of these free whiteboard pens and other stationary. Oh, itโs just lovely. Very, very nice.
So anyway, on the 1st of September, all the students will arrive and weโll start teaching. Obviously this episode comes out after that, so Iโll already be teaching by the time you listen to this, which is fun. Iโm really excited. Iโm going to be teaching some of the younger students in the middle school, and Iโll be teaching with graded readers. So weโre gonna be using storybooks to teach English, which, as you know, is kind of my thing, so itโs a perfect fit.
Also, the other teachers Iโve talked to who have worked in other schools, other cities in China, have said that Ningbo is a super lovely place to work, and this is a really good job. Itโs my first time teaching abroad. Itโs my first time living in China, but Iโve picked a great city and it seems like a great job. So I feel really lucky and happy to be here.

So the thought I want to conclude on for this episode is: emigrating, moving abroad, I think is possibly the hardest thing anyone can do. I knew it was going to be difficult, but these past 12 days have felt like months of stress and new experiences. I donโt even feel like Iโve fully arrived, if that makes sense. And there are still challenges waiting for me.
I canโt even imagine how hard it must be to be a refugee. Iโve taught many people in the UK who, for example, are refugees from Syria or Ukraine or Iran, and I cannot imagine how difficult that situation is.
Iโm not saying my experience is anything like that, but it has been quite hard for me because most of my colleagues here have moved with a partner or they have lived in China before. I think I only have one new colleague whoโs also single and new to China like me.
So itโs been a real rollercoaster of emotions. This has been a few weeks of extreme highs and lows. There have been moments where I felt like I didnโt belong. I shouldnโt be here. I made a mistake. There have been moments where I felt like, oh my God, this was such an amazing thing to do. Iโm so amazing. This was a great choice. Iโm so happy. Iโm so excited.
And I know thereโs gonna be more of that. Itโs already settling a bit. Itโs starting to even out, but itโs gonna be a journey. Itโs gonna be a real adventure, and I can already feel the effect on my creativity. I feel very inspired. I think this is going to be great for my writing. I think itโs going to be great for my development as a person.
Whatโs very funny is Iโm already thinking of two years from now when my contract ends like, ooh, should I renew? Should I stay in China? Which is really silly because I havenโt really even started the job yet, but my brain starts to jump ahead. But I donโt know. Before I came here, I was thinking Iโll probably just do two years and then go back to the UK. But now that Iโm here, Iโm talking to people who have lived in China for much longer. I have one colleague whoโs lived here for 16 years. Iโm starting to feel like, hmm, maybe this could be my life. Maybe this is the direction I go in. I donโt know. Itโs weird.
Iโve actually managed to stay in touch quite well with people from the UK. Weโve managed the time zones, weโve made some phone calls. Iโve been texting people. So in some ways itโs a lot less isolating than it could be. In the past, before modern communication technologies, it wouldโve been way harder.
So thank you all for joining me on this journey. Many of you have sent me lovely encouraging messages and I really want to thank you. Iโm really excited to see where the podcast goes in the next two years and where I go! Thereโs so much to explore in this huge, huge country and in the continent of Asia.
So thanks again for listening to Easy Stories in English, and if youโd like to support me: tell your friends about the show. Maybe you have friends living in China. Maybe youโre from China. Iโm sure you can think of at least one person who would find the podcast useful. Remember, sharing is caring. Thanks for listening and see you soon!
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